Man’s take on why he isn’t texting you back

Instead of guessing why your bloke hasn’t replied to a text, an Aussie man has offered his take on the four (possible) reasons why you haven’t heard back from him.

The married man – who is Turkish but lives in Australia and goes by the name HaydarW — has gained thousands of views on a bunch of clips claiming to offer up the truth about relationships.

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In one clip, he explains the reasons why you don’t hear from your partner is because “he’s bored by your texts”, “he felt like he was putting in all the effort”, “he was never that interested to begin with”, or “he has found someone else”.

“A common reason for a guy not texting back is that he was never that into you to begin with,” Haydar explained.

Meanwhile, he offered up five other key signs on why you’re possibly not in the right relationship which includes when you’re “consistently being disrespected” and thinking about breaking up often.

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“When you’re with them you are unhappy more than you are happy,” he added.

Haydar said for those in a relationship who feel their boyfriend might be pretending to love you to pay attention on whether he puts his friends before you, “then he’s also not that into you”.

He added that the same is true if he wants “so much” of you, but offers “nothing in return”.

However, he said perhaps the biggest giveaway someone doesn’t care about you is if he is openly flirting with other women.

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Haydar’s clips have struck a chord with some of his more than 64,000 TikTok followers.

“This is all the signs I’m getting right now and I still can’t bear to leave him,” one woman wrote.

“Yuppp so true just went through it a week ago,” another woman replied on why her partner hasn’t texted back.

Jeremy Nicholson, a US-based doctor of social/personality psychology said one of the most frustrating things about dating and relationships is trying to figure out whether a person has romantic feelings for you.

“People often look for advice on how to know whether a woman finds you attractive or how to tell when a guy will commit,” he said in an article for Psychology Today.

“In trying to mind read someone’s thoughts and feelings in this way, however, mistakes are often made. For example, due to your own biases, you may see interest that is not there – or miss signs of attraction that are indeed present.”

He said it was important to pay attention to things like body language, touch and gratitude.

“Focusing on these tangible behaviours can give you a better indication of whether someone really likes you, loves you, desires you, or all of the above.”